I am a gay guy born and living in beautiful Cape Town. I am generally quite shy when you first meet me, but after I while I warm up quite well to people. I suppose that is probably because I am a bit of an introvert.
I have a very special boyfriend who I have been dating for a number of years now. Dating my boyfriend is kind of what got me to come out. People who are open, honest, and 'real' turn me on, while fake and pretentious people have the opposite effect. I love having dinner with friends, and I get true value out of helping others, especially our youth. Oh, and I love chocolate and cheese!
I have come to accept that I have a deep need to learn new things, but it does mean that I end up having many things on the go. I believe that life is a long journey of self-discovery and having good conversations with great people will change your life forever.